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Wednesday, July 20, 2005

To all the single girls out there,


Why do you think you should get married/stay single?

15 comments:

Papillona ® said...

each has good reasons, depends on what you want ;)

LUMINOUS said...

staying single means a more exciting life, more flexibility, more freedom, more fun, and more focus on ME.

getting married is so binding.

and none of my married friends are happy. and they all married their boyfriends!! most envy me and my lifestyle :)

Salted-Caramel said...

There are pros and cons to both, being single and getting married. Being single means I worry about myself, as I am my first and main priority. I'm the main character of my life. Apart from family and friends, I have no strings attached. I can take every step of my life without consulting anyone, because what I want is what really counts.

For a while that's a fun and exciting life. Independence and freedom blah blah blah. But then you realize you want something different. A life where you can take those steps WITH someone by your side. Being married, in my opinion, is also a wonderful experience. Who says that by getting married life becomes miserable? On the contrary, marriage is a beautiful union between two people who love and care about each other. It's basically SHARING your life with someone of your choice. Someone you wanna grow old with. You become life partners. Companions. You learn to become less selfish since it’s not always about ME ME ME anymore. ME becomes US.

At the moment, being single is how I want to live my life. I still need to be my main priority. However, sooner or later I will probably reach the stage where I will decide that I want to share my life with someone. I don’t want to grow old alone.

Flamingoliya said...

get married to have a house, a partner (a partner wouldn't nessecarily mean a man, he could be a teddy bear, a robot, a lap top, or chocolate :p) and kids.

friends envy me too, but i don't think they really mean it. they envy my freedom, they want to switch lives. but i know for sure if they were to choose, or if they had great men they wouldn't say that.

so the conclusion is, i'd rather stay single than to marry a man who would make me miserable.

Shopaholic Q8eya said...

Sarah,
It depends on what YOU want. Tell us, do you rather stay single or get married and why?

luminous,
but some people are happilly married!

caramel,
;* intay ili fahmtni

flam,
LOL khaletay mokhe yero7 eb3ed for a while ;P

True Faith said...

Being single:

1. Afraid of the responsibility of marriage.
2. Mr. Nearly Perfect didn't propose yet.

Get married:

1. A soul pleasure .. to have a man loving you and caring about you ... sharing you your life in all it's details.
2. I want to have my own children :)

W. said...

Madri

Both situations have their perks... i think if the right guy comes a long,, why not.. itha mafeeh na9eeb.. move on

Papillona ® said...

I'd rather stay single.
why?
for many reasons:

1. If I get married it means I have to take care of this huge baby (man) and I'm not that good with babies.

2. Once you get married to a guy, It means you are also marrying his family. who wants that?

3. Getting married makes you lose the privilege of privacy.

4. It's like deciding to buy a watermelon, you never know whether it's good or bad untill you buy it, try it, and find out.. and there is no way you can return it back.

5. I don't like sharing a bed and a bathroom and I don't think there is a man who would understand that.
they usually take it as an insult.

6. I love my life the way it is quiet and peaceful and I reached this point where it is hard to change my life style or myself.

Sloth said...

stay single

reason..
i am not stable ! lol

Papillona ® said...

Sloth LOL! zogha!

Shopaholic Q8eya said...

TF,
Mr Perfect will never propose.

W,
Ana agol we move on wayed a7san ;P

Sarah,
LOL I agree with #1, very true.

Sloth,
Welcome to the unstable-yet group ;P

Papillona ® said...

;)

True Faith said...

Shopa; I said Mr. Nearly Perfect.

And if he didn't propose ... Allah y`7aleli my father elli mo m`7ali 3alai ga9er :)

Shopaholic Q8eya said...

lol ana rathya eb Mr. 50% Perfect ;P

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