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Sunday, July 17, 2005

Never?

I heard that usually the man/woman you get married to is nothing like what you imagined or wanted him/her to be..

A friend of mine used to say she would never get married to a fat guy or a smoker. but she told me that she had to give up on something and the reason is there is no such thing as Mr/Mrs.Perfect. So she got married to a smoker with a good body!

so if you ever have to give up on some qualities in a man/woman, what is the ONE thing you would NEVER give up on?

23 comments:

Flamingoliya said...

strong personality.

True Faith said...

Praying.

Purgatory said...

hmm, 7ana, no 7ana.

Blossom said...

Being me !

Papillona ® said...

Flam. It's very important for the man to be strong

TF :) I respect that

Purg. sa7! I would hate that too.. heff akrah il 7anna! sij

blossom, hmm what about him? a quality in the guy

Spontaneousnessity said...

honesty, I don't know how to tell when he gave it up though!! it's one easily hidden quality isn't it

Papillona ® said...

sponta. Hell it is!

Blossom said...

Yes it is something mutual , to be the way I am , cuz I know when or how to change !

As for him , I don't want him to be shallow !

Judy Abbott said...

well i dont care as long as we understand each others differances and we are two diff. personalities.

Broke said...

Being younger than me

Shopaholic Q8eya said...

It’ll have to say his personality.
If he smokes, he can quit
If he doesn’t pray, he can start praying
If he is “7anna”, he can learn to be not

Spontaneousnessity said...

Shopa, I think that's what Sarah means with "not what we want them to be" you want them to be able to do all that but you'll eventually have to accept them for who they are .. trust me, there'll always always always be a tad of disappointment here or there

Salted-Caramel said...

I agree with Broke. He's gotta be older than me. I don't think I would ever give that up.

Equalizer said...

Intelligence, and this is a very broad term that could be defined in many ways. Yet I think it is the one identifiable aspect that I cannot neglect. In my view a person who is intelligent enough would be able to have FAITH, good judgement, self- assessment, knowledgeable in many respects, adapts to the environment well, and is a talkative person.

Papillona ® said...

Blossom, "I know when or how to change !" ta3jibeeni ;)

Nooni, is there anything you hate to have in your life-time-partner?
understanding is all you need? wallah zain qanoo3a ;)

Broke, really? age was never an issue for me, yes I would rather be with older guy. but if the guy was everything you've ever wanted. except that he's younger. you'd say no???

Papillona ® said...

shopa, I hope changing is as easy as you think but it isn't :) why would you be with some one to change everything he is?

Sponta, ofcours

Salted I can understand that

equalizer, I agree

Flamingoliya said...

Sarah, I think we need a new post about the age thing ;)

I wouldn't care for age if he was perfect. It's his brains that count.

Bloo said...

i'd consider the religous issues for granted.. ya3ni lets not compromise that in this exception deal.

my never ever let-go thing: good skin


:)

Papillona ® said...

flam it's true, the brains but we're talking about men..

men were created with a brain and a penis but only enough blood to run one at a time.

this could need another post
salty sbigatni 3ala il age issue ;)

Papillona ® said...

vintage. I never thought of that, and YES it is important

Salted-Caramel said...

I didn't know you wanted to post on age, but since you asked what quality I would never give up and I said 'age', I sensed the need for a post on age! :)

Looking forward to your story later. ;)

Broke said...

Sarah .. yes ..I will absolutely say NO ..

I onced refused the proposal of someone who was 6 months older than me .. I want him 2 be at least 5 yrs older .. But there might be some exceptions .. bus never never never younger ... Not only beacuse of his mentality ..laa other things count too .

Papillona ® said...

Broke, I understand :)