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Sunday, December 11, 2005

Wishing and Hoping....and Dreaming.....

by MissCosmoKuwait

Some us believe in love while others believe it's a load of crap.

Have you lost hope in Love? Did you ever believe in it in the first place? If not, why not? Where you born not believing in it or did someone go out of his/her way to make you stop believing in love?

Would you ever marry a marriage of convenience? Can you wake up in the morning knowing that you don't love the person sleeping next to you? Have the crazy stories of failed love in Kuwait made you believe that love no longer exists?

Are men and women in Kuwait so bitter towards each other that the ugly head of vengeance leaves no hope for love? If mind is over matter and the loss of belief in love is everywhere, does love even have the chance to exist?

Realistically, when you wake up in morning on a sunny day in Kuwait, do you think today I might fall in love or are you one of those who bitterly sits at Marina Mall bitching about the opposite sex with not an ounce of ra7ma in your heart?

Did the battle between Love and Hate in Kuwait mean that Love has lost the war?

16 comments:

Flamingoliya said...

oh hehehe! this was a surprise! :)

Judy Abbott said...

love is there and it will never die..specially with men in grey :) otherwise.. love is still with its old meaning :)
But i dont believe in love that dies... love would never die ..think about it how can you be in love and then one day you dont.. its only means you dont know what you want in your own life.

Love never dies its always there in every single language it can be expressed even with the simplest thing like the way you serve food to your love ones for example!

The Stallion said...

Have you lost hope in Love? No I haven't and I hope I will never lost hope!

Did you ever believe in it in the first place? Yes and I always wished it would come my way!

Where you born not believing in it or did someone go out of his/her way to make you stop believing in love? No I was brought up in a loving family and I was taught that love is something essential in everyone's life!

Would you ever marry a marriage of convenience? Oh hell no and I'm glad my parents won't make me either!

Can you wake up in the morning knowing that you don't love the person sleeping next to you? I don't think so, but "D" apparently had that feeling! She let go of me cause she said that she lost the feelings for me! :`o( She wasn't sleeping next to me though!

Have the crazy stories of failed love in Kuwait made you believe that love no longer exists? I have been hurt by love in Kuwait but that does not keep me from believing in love!

Are men and women in Kuwait so bitter towards each other that the ugly head of vengeance leaves no hope for love? The women you find in Kuwait romaing the streets are a big tease to the guys and the guys who roam the streets and malls need to find something better to do! Talk about harrassement and "Haylag"! The bitterness comes from either side or even both at the same time! The tease one another and lead each other on knowing that there sisn't anything backing up the emotions that they soo professionally act out!

If mind is over matter and the loss of belief in love is everywhere, does love even have the chance to exist? Love will always have a chance especially when you lease expect it and it might hit you when you don't want it to!

Realistically, when you wake up in morning on a sunny day in Kuwait, do you think today I might fall in love or are you one of those who bitterly sits at Marina Mall bitching about the opposite sex with not an ounce of ra7ma in your heart? I wake up in the morning and wonder where I went wrong in my relationship with "D" (that's even if I went wrong in the first place) and wonder if there is anything I can do to get back with her again! I can go on and on about "D" but I would rather keep that stuff to myself and anyways my comment is long enough!

Did the battle between Love and Hate in Kuwait mean that Love has lost the war? The battle will always be on-going but Love will choose to win the battles that deserve to be won! Love will always be there!

MissCosmoKuwait said...

Flam habeebti...what do I have to do to get you to comment on this??..hehehehe...:)

Judes...men in grey could easily be attainable but with lack of flirting skills...makoo faida..:)..So glad to know that you believe in love...and you're right...if it's real...it can never die!

Stallion...that was beautiful man!...Hell, if both women and men on this blog are telling the truth here...then there is hope yet!! Sorry about "D"...but if she can't recognize a beautiful mind like yours...then honey...it's her loss...

Spontaneousnessity said...

love and marriage love and marriage, okay am not going to sing God I hate this song, anyway they both are looked at from a wrong prespective, I have said that for ever and I don't think anyone is buying that, they are supposed to be precious amazing most valuable things yet they are taken for granted, people just get married to be married and have kids, sorry, won't settle for that, it's all or nothing.

The Stallion said...

Thanks for the compliment! As much as people tell me that it's her loss that I'm not with her I still feel like I lost something as well!

Delicately Realistic said...

Hahahahaha I love that song!
Makes me laugh!
too-too-tooo-toooooo

Desert Girl said...

Love in Kuwait is in a sad state of disrepair. It seems that no one here trusts each other - or can trust each other. All the game playing and demands. It's terrible. It is so hard to find out who is sincere and honest and kind.

McArabian said...

I've come to the conclusion (at the tender age of 28) that REAL LOVE is very rare. That's why it's in the movies and literature all the time. It's one of those 'one in a million' type of things. Let me do the math for a second: last I heard the population in Kuwait is 2 million, so yeah, only 2 couples in Kuwait probably experienced the kind of real movie love that we all hope for.

That being said, I'm not against having a spouse or marriage. I can live with acceptance and respect - and the kind of love that comes from growing with a person.

I don't know about love in Kuwait. I know my parents love each other: my dad still flirts with my mom after more than thirty years of marriage. That says something about their relationship. I don't know if that means they're one of the two lucky couples in Kuwait, but I know that I want that. And I know that the person I'll be with will probably want the same thing too. So yeah, I'm optimistic :)

That's my two fils :)

MissCosmoKuwait said...

Spont...GOOD FOR YOU! I totally agree and I hope you'll always stick to your grounds until you find it..

The stallion..I suppose the saying in this case is that is better to have loved and lost than to not have loved at all...or something to that affect..:)

Amerab....I hear you! Though I do prefer that one is innocent until proven guilty...sadly they mostly end up being guilty...but I have no doubt that the good ones are out there...they just gotta!!

Mcarabian..it's funny you should mention your parents...well..it's true...my parents are the same too and I just want to have what they have...and i see their friends have that too...do you suppose it's a generation thing...that the olden days it was possible but as the population grows...it's becoming more impossible??...and your 2 fils are much appreciated..:)

Kaleidoscope said...

First: you should define what love is. Maybe love was never meant to last. Maybe love should be lived in phases and stages as many people are now realizing throughout the world.

EXzombie said...

Have you lost hope in Love?

the answer is yes for now, that might change some day I guess, love now is so weak and fragile that few obsticles would crack it up and disfigure what ever was good in the relationship in the first place....

Did you ever believe in it in the first place?

yes deeply, although I am of a traditional type of love...

Would you ever marry a marriage of convenience?

never cause the only one who'd be responsible for the failure of this is me....

Can you wake up in the morning knowing that you don't love the person sleeping next to you?

nope, never happened, and i don't think it will....

Have the crazy stories of failed love in Kuwait made you believe that love no longer exists?

crazy stories, no need.....!!!
I'm a living proof of lost love....!!!

Are men and women in Kuwait so bitter towards each other that the ugly head of vengeance leaves no hope for love?

I believe I think so, you see after you lose love what do we have left except our dignity (or whats left of it) so pride kicks in and suddenly your mouth or fingers (whatever suits you)begin a lashing session against someone who you still have some feelings for them....!!!

If mind is over matter and the loss of belief in love is everywhere, does love even have the chance to exist?
not even the mind can control the flow of the heart, that is why we suffer more than we enjoy the state of love....

Realistically, when you wake up in morning on a sunny day in Kuwait, do you think today I might fall in love or are you one of those who bitterly sits at Marina Mall bitching about the opposite sex with not an ounce of ra7ma in your heart?
actually I don't see myself in either of those types....!!!

Did the battle between Love and Hate in Kuwait mean that Love has lost the war?
yes for now, but who knows....!!!
we all like to see "come backs"...

thanx

Princess Mestiza said...

LOVE IS IN THE AIR! I totally believe in Love, and Love at first sight, and I am living proof of that! I don't believe in "finding ur soulmate" o madre shino .. bes Love is accepting the fact that the special other is NOT perfect, and learning to live with those imperfections, and knowing that u r not perfect urself,,

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