Tuesday, April 03, 2007

Beauty IS Beauty

I appreciate beauty.
I love beautiful things.
I love beautiful people.
And I love looking at beautiful people.

My friends always say: "DRo intay kil ilnas 3indich 7ilwen" in other words "I have no taste"

I beg to differ, I think I have great taste in beauty, regardless of the fact that I see a little beauty in everyone. (But thats another story)

I was recently invited to a wedding where sitting in front of me was one of the most gorgeous girls I've seen. So pretty that I could easily imagine her on a magazine cover. So naturally I ask my sister who she was. To my surprise she answered me with "Flana IlFlaniya".

I was surprised because I had heard from my friends how 'ugly' and 'unstylish' this girl was and how in the world could she have gotten married looking like that. Ok, you guessed right, there is bad history between the girls.

But honestly speaking, I don't care if she stole my bf, my husband, my father, I don't care of she was a cradle robber or a home wrecker. When someone is beautiful I'm going to admit that she is beautiful regardless of what she has done in life, to me or to others.

As soon as I left I contacted my friend straight away and guess what her answer was?
"Allah y3afy flan (her husband) ily sana3ha"

I was enraged at that comment. I will not continue with what happened next.

Moral of the story?

Lighten up girls!

If someone is beautiful that doesn't make you any less beautiful or any less of a person.

Admit or acknowledge other peoples merits.

That in itself adds to your own merit.


Anonymous said...

A lot of women are jealous of others for some reason, especially here in Kuwait. A gorgeous girl ely ma ta36ee labeled as [insert word here].

And it goes on & on. Bitterness & jealousy has become an art here. I've heard things GIRLS say about my wife and I just laugh at the amazing stories.

Beauty is meant to be appreciated, no matter in what form it is.

Good post. :)

Shousha said...

Fee wayid nas may7iboon il5air wil mad7 7ag a7ad '3airhom. Lazim ohma il a7la oo ohma il a7san, oo itha wa7da thania kanat 7ilwa or mamloo7a.. "min 9ijich intay?? hathi 7ilwa? 7adha jaikara! shoofay sha3arha, shofay libs-ha 7adha hailigiya" etc etc oo yg3doon yi6al3oon feeha i3yoob '3a9b, ishda3wa! 7aram 3alaikom! I don't know who they think they are to be judging ppl like that.

Ur right about everyone having beauty in them. Ya3ni ako a stereotypical "standard" form of beauty, bs ilnas athwaq. Oo kilman beautiful ib their own way, whether it was physical or ib sha59iyat-hom which reflects on their looks, etc. Ya3ni am sure if u look carefully at everyone u know, u will find some beauty in them. Oo in the end, "beauty is in the eyes of the the beholder" oo "kilman yara ilnas ib 3ain 6ab3a".

Nora-Cassandra said...

I agree with the way you think dear! I don’t care who or what she has done if she’s beautiful then she is beautiful! I won’t deny it!

And telling that her husband fixed her!!?? That will drive me off the wall! I’ll be so mad even if it was my husband saying that about some girl!

elaine.ess said...

sorry but i have to disagree.. just like how you would find a regular person pretty over time because of their wonderful personality, many girls'looks have dimnished because of their suck-y one.. thats how men are able to break up with beautiful women :p


I so liked your post, that happens alot and i disagree with everyone who thinks that way although i know alot of people who think that way, BS LAISH ?! ya3ni she's pretty 5ala9 no matter what you say about her she's still gona be pretty ! I agree with what you said totally, i'm more like that, even if i hate the girl or she's mean in any way, i can still admit if she's good looking..
Bs BiL a5er, i7Na cehthy mojtama3naw 9ayer, ma adri laish yaRaBiii..

Ansam said...

Beauity is the quality present in a thing or person that gives intense pleasure or deep satisfaction to the mind, whether arising from sensory manifestations (as shape, color, sound, etc.), a meaningful design or pattern, or something else (as a personality in which high spiritual qualities are manifest).

Source: Dictionary :-P